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17/f,
So I was wondering as I know it happens to everyone at some point, how do you like overcome getting talked/bitched about?
Today, theres this girl I knew from school a few years ago (we didn't even talk) and as soon as I sat on the computer next door but one to her in the library, she started OBVIOUSLY talking about me to her friend. Within a minute, I made sure I gave them a 'look' to know I knew they were talking about me, and I got up and went downstairs. When I got home I deleted her of my fb friends. But I don't know why she was bitching?
I can't ask her why, because she'll just get her friend to gang up on me, and I really really dont get on with her friend as it is-she always used to bully me. Incidently, after the computer thing I went to the toilets and cried my eyes out. So how do other people just 'get over' what other ppl say negativly about them? (link)
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Whatever it is that you do, have, or just are, they are obviously jealous of. So they feel the need to make you feel bad about yourself. Just remind yourself that whatever they say is only their opinion. They don't truly care about you if they talk about you and not to you about something they want you to change.
Just remind yourself that after these years that you have with them, you will MOST LIKELY never see them again in your life. It's pointless to keep letting them be your jury.
Form a soundproof bubble around yourself that only lets in people that are trying to help (teachers, parents, GOOD friends) and forget about them. They're irrelevant.
And next time, instead of showing them that they bother you (giving them a look) just turn around and smile, or smile and shake your head as if you pity them. Because you should, they are irrelevant after all.
Keep your head up.
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