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I'm a mom of two, who has had her share of problems, and likes to help others with their own. I love helping people, and knowing that I can make a difference. I can't help with everything, but I'll always try to make people smile and just feel good about themselves. I've had more than my share of family drama and problems; what with my parents coming from two different and clashing cultures. I've also moved around a lot and had to deal with changing schools and all the trauma of making new friends and fitting in. I'm good with questions about friends, relationships (love, family..you name it), tough decisions, technology, and other weird random questions.
I'm a great listener, but I make sure to understand both sides of the story as well.

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13/F

So I hang out with this girl named Lucy. We met about 3 months ago.

I met these 2 girls named Christina and Jessica. We met 6 months ago. I hung out with Christina and Jessica for about 3 months, but I met Lucy then we started hanging out. But now, 3 months later, I realized I'd like to hang out with Christina and Jessica again. I told Christina about this, and she said she'd love for me to hang out with them. But here's the thing...

What do I tell Lucy? Lucy and Christina kind of know each other, but I kind of just only want it to be Jessica, Christina, and me. Lucy has a bunch of other friends she hangs out with, but I don't want to hurt her. What do I do?

There is no such thing as too many friends. You obviously became friends with Lucy for a reason, some kind of connection. My question is why do you have to completely erase Lucy from your circle of friends. You never know, things might be even more fun with Lucy added to the mix. When I was your age I had my own Lucy problem, and my Lucy became one of my best and closest friends.

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-- DN

We CANT all hang out with each other.....
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