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I'll answer question on pretty much anything, though as I'm studying psychology and from past experience, I'm best at answering questions about love life, mental illness as well as giving career advice or job advice. I am also really into fashion and love these types of questions!. Oh and any pet help...
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I don't want to sound like a total freak out, but he sees her at least 4 times a week to exchange clothes/toys. We are in our early twenties and live together. They text all the time, and I've gotten to a point where I am just really uncomfortable with the whole thing, and he knows that. He says I have to accept that he has a child with her. I understand that she will always be in his life because of that, but in a way I feel like a home wrecker just by being with him. I feel like the other woman, when I haven't done anything wrong. I am having second thoughts. Maybe he should try and work things out with her for the sake of the child. Is what I'm feeling normal?
I really feel for you on this one-after all its not you're fault he's fathered another womans child.
I think firstly you need to talk to him about it-communication here is key. I mean, it is normal for parents to get on for the sake of the children involved, but texting constantly? That doesn't seem right.
He has a right to see his child, but you also have a right to a normal relationship with him, not one with three people involved. Tell him how you feel. Although this is hard, the sooner you do it, the sooner you can move onwards and upwards, whichever that direction may be.
If he denies things and just says hes civil with his ex, but you still have your suspicions, then walk away. People like this will never change, and don't you deserve better? Of course you do.
So tell him how you feel, get any answers you may need, and move forward.
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I'm happy to communicate with him about the texting. That really is the only thing I should be worried about. And if things do not change in that department, I probably should walk away. I do deserve to be happy and not worried all the time about what he is doing. No matter who it is! Thank you very much! :)
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