hello! my name is amber and i have been through a lot over the years! my father died when i was 6 years old and 6 years later i developed an auto-immune disease called lupus. i have been in and out of the hospital many time and have been through severe pain physically, and mentally because of it. no question is too odd or confusing, and i will try my best to give you my best and most honest advice. i am very spiritual and into positive thinking, so i could also help you out with anything having to do with finding your way in life. love and light!
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Okay so I'm a teenager and I can't do anything. I'm always stuck inside with nothing to do and no one to see. The only time I can is if my mom can be home and drive me somewhere..which is never cause she's always working. So idk what to do! I haven't hung out or really done anything since June. I used to sneak out during the day but then I got caught and grounded and I've been thinking bout doing it again but I think I'll be too nervous and scared to. And idk what I'd do anyway. Just please help I'm so bored and I just wanna enjoy these last few years of my childhood. How do I make things fun and interesting and crazy? (not anything illegal) and don't say I should wait till im an adult or to read or watch tv cause ive been doing that and im tired of it so yeah! Thanks and sorry for this being so long! (link)
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wow.. it seems like you're in a rut. why are you not doing these things that would make you happy during the day? is it because of your parents? if so, you need to sit down and have a serious talk with them and let them know that you want to do more things and enjoy yourself because that would make you happy. if they don't understand, then i'm sorry to say this but you need to start living life for you and do what you want anyways (provided that it does not cause any harm to anyone else around you). as for getting inspired on doing things.. find your passion! try photography, exercising, cooking/baking, scrapbooking, painting, drawing, writing poetry, talking with friends, going out to coffee with friends, writing stories, watching youtube videos/documentaries online, trying yoga or dancing, listening to music, there are plenty of things to do! what i suggest is just DOING IT. try one thing and then that one thing will lead you to have inspiration for trying the next thing. you have to take it step by step though, and constantly try and push yourself out of your comfort zone. day by day, things will get better, i wish you the best of luck
amber
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Oh my gosh you're so sweet! Thank you! And I'll try but it's going to be hard because I can never think of what to do... I'm not really spontaneous, but I really want to be. But yeah I'll try, thanks for the good advice!!
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