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So there' these guys I like,but I don't know which I should chose.
Guy # 1- I know he's odler than me,but age doesn't matter.He had a girlfriend,they used to be togethr all the time.But now,they are never together,so I don't think they go out.I've never talked to him before,but I like him.When we pass in the hallway ,our eyes catch before one of us looks away.

Guy # 2 - He's also older than me,but I like him also.I know he has a girlfriend,but there's just something about him that I can't get over.It seems like everywhere I go in school,he's there.We have no classes togeter or anything,but we always cross paths.I feel like he doesn't know I exist.But he stops and talks to my friends if they talk to him,and he'll cast a glance at me.


Which guy should I choose?How can I start a conversation with them,since I'm shy?Do either of them seem like they like me back?Is it wishful thinking?Should I give up? (link)
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Well before you choose, try getting to know each of them better. When they go to talk to your friends, try joining in the conversation and talking to them. If your friends are friends with him then have them invite him to things & that could be a way for you to talk to him more & get to know him better. If you see them everywhere, try bumping into them or make up an exuse to talk to them. Like asking for a pencil or asking them if they know where a teacher is or something. I don't know if they like you, but even if they don't thats okay cause they dont even know you! Once you get to know each of them better you can decide which one you like better, and take it from there.So Good luck! Hope I could help.


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thanks alot.if you don't mind,can i ask you questions about this in the future?




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