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Long story short, my girlfriends brother doesn't like me. I don't like football, I like other things, like reading books, taking a walk, drawing...
He has taken it onto himself to dish out my girlfriends number to his drunken friends, who has for the last week or two called her pretty late at night.
He has been asked to stop his crap, but he goes on. I'm not going to beat him up, he is twice my size, he does plays football and I draw pictures. I did think of accidentally shooting him at a rifle range... but that's too drastic and I've watched CSI.
I'm beyond playing nice with this #$%^, I want revenge.
I have already considered posting his girlfriend in the classified adds, or posting him in the gay classifieds (I have no problem with gay people, my best friend is... Mr. Brother is a stereotypical jock, with bells and whistles attached).
I need some more ideas please!
FEED ME!
Well firstly dont get anyone else involved like his girlfriend-not only is this not fair on her but also it doesn't make you look great in front of him.
So it seems hes more on the extraverted side of things and your more on the introverted side-no wonder theres a clash!
You can do two things here. 1)Copy his childish behaviour by getting revenge like kids, and it'll just go on and on.
or 2) Be a man. I suggest talking to him on his own one day and explaining your concerns.Or his parents (sorry dont know your age) Or even his best friend. If thats to hard then send an email or something.
I dont know, but coming from a girls perspective I'd hate if a guy got revenge on my brother. Sure it shows hes protective, but it also shows jelousy which is not cool.
If you must do something, then only do something small, that will have an impact but not in the long run. Posting in the gay classifieds could also hurt someone else who may phone him. In my opinion the best revenge, if talking doesn't work again, would be to play to your strengths and his weaknesses. Show him up as being unintelligent or unread or something.Or even just avoid him altogether. If you dont see each other maybe itll just be forgotten.
But yeh if I were you I try talking again. What goes aroung always comes around in the end. I'm sorry if the advice I gave wasn't tips on how to get revenge...but revenge isn't always the best and most attractive way forward.
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Like I said, I tired of this crap, and he is beyond reasoning with.
Ye, get the point about the gay-classifieds one...
Maybe I'll just be supportive to the cause and subscribe him to Out Magazine and similar, and set the delivery address to his neighbors.
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