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I know none of you are doctors but you might have some insight on this:
We are both 22, my boyfriend is healthy weight and healthy inside as far as I know, he doesn't have diabetes or high blood pressure or anything like that. But when we are in bed, he cannot stay hard. He has told me that he really wants to have sex with me but we have tried so many times and we still can't do it. I'm not mad because of the sex, it is just frustrating because I can tell he gets very upset that he can't do it. I don't know if there is anything I can do to help, I try so hard!
Do you think the problem could be erectile dysfunction? And do you have any tips for me/him?
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I agree with seeing a doctor and not getting upset with him over it. If he's on or has been on medication for awhile for any ailment that could have sexual side-effects start with eliminating that. There can also be a ton of other reasons medically related for not being able to trap blood long enough for sex.
The other thing is that it could be psychological and a fear of something be it STD, pregnancy, hurting you or some hangup even from when he was younger that gets in his head and kills things for him when he tries to start. Ask him if he's afraid or not and talk about it.
The other thing is that there is actually a product out there that if you are 18+ you can get that works to trap the blood in his penis long enough to engage in intercourse. Adult novelty stores sell it and it's a plastic ring device. It goes by a really vulgar name though so you'll have to describe what you need. A lot of people with this problem use it. Otherwise,send him to the doctor.
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Yeah I know he has psychological things from his past that prevent him a lot.
Thanks for your help.
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