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I think i just made a big mistake im a boy who just fell victim to hormones yes i used a condom but im 12 is this bad?

12 is a very young age to loose your virginity, but with that said the 'right time' is different for everyone. Some loose it when they are teenagers, while others wait til marriage. The fact that you lost yours doesn't make you a bad person, it just means that you chose to do it before others. I am glad you used a condom, always use a condom unless you want kids.


Next time, I hope that you will wait until you find someone you truly love to have sex with and don't just have sex because your hormones want you to; You can feel guilty or mess with someones feelings/hurt them if you don't fall in love/have a long relationship with them before having sex.


So, if you love a girl and date her, then have sex and continue to date that is really good. Being in love with someone and having sex with them are two different things - do not get them confused with eachother.

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(Rating: 5) Thank you for the good advice! Condoms don't work good cuz I am pregnant now. my parents ARE NOT HAPPY :(
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