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Hi everyone! I'm 12 years old (female) and I started junior high awhile ago.
Today, i've had trouble with this girl and she seems really mad at me. Anyways, I tried saying sorry to her of what I did but it just didn't come up. She's in the same grade as me. I would tell someone she's picking on me, but I CAN'T and I WON'T. I know it would be better for me, but I can't. I can't and I won't.
So I was thinking these options but I don't know which one to choose and I was hoping you can help me choose the right decision for me and tell me what's wrong with the other option:
1.) Home Schooling - I've had home schooling in mind since 4th grade. I was going to talk to my mom about getting homeschooled, but I don't know if I should do this or the other option.
2.) Schedule Change - I was thinking about going to our school principal and have her change my schedule (Yes, i'm able to do that) because I have 2 periods with her, 1 period with her friend (She's in one the girl's periods), and 1 with her other friend (She's also in one of her periods. We have Science and Math together and I just don't want her in them. What option should I choose and why/why not?
Thank you for the help and sorry if this is long I really just need help
-Amy (link)
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Well, I would be able to help you on a greater level if you tell me why you "can't" or "won't" tell the principle, but here's what I would do. Go talk to that girl who's mad at you and ask her why she's mad at you. If you already know, then ask her what you can do to make it up to her. If she overreacts and gets even madder, then you just stay calm and be nice to her, all the time. Even if she yells at you, bothers you, whatever, just smile, don't look at her. You get what I mean? No matter the circumstances, be nice to her. She will eventually stop and/or ask you what is wrong with you =D
but anyways, niether of those options are a good idea. You need to confront your problems head-on, not run away from them. That just makes them worse. You also shouldn't have to change your schedule because of ONE PERSON and her friends. It shows weakness, the smaller person. You need to confront her (not angrily) and try to fix it, because that's where the source of the problem is.
I hope I helped :) and please, let me know what happens at melanielovesdylanobrien@gmail.com because I want to know very badly!
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Thank you so much and i'll be sure to email you soon :)
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