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Ok I'm 17 f and I was hanging with my two friends that are girls. My boyfriend was also there but he said I was weird because I act different with my friends and that he felt left out. My boyfriend wanted to give me a hug and kiss but I didn't let him get to lovey dovey because my friends would of felt left out. I was to bussy trying to make my two friends feel less weird by totally not being lovey dovey with my boyfriend and I guess I ignored him in a way, even though I didn't want to. Should I invite my friends when I hang with my boyfriend? Or keep inviting my friends but this time not ignore him and kiss and hug in front of my friends? I'm very akward person so sometimes I don't know what to do..
Thanks for reading!!(:
Hey,
I'm 17 to and was in your situation 2 years ago exactly-and it cost me the relationship.
I'm guessing you're like me-you think things over way to much.Don't! Seriously enjoy the moment whatever happens and you'll act more natural and things will flow better.
In terms of the friends/boyfriend thing it can be hard to keep a balance. If its a new relationship (1 year or under) I'd say to focus more on the boyfriend. Let him hug you or whatever, because he's you're boyfriend-he's there for you and you alone so the least you can do is appriciate the poor guy!
If you're friends were proper friends they'd understand and if not thats their problem. But yeh from past experience definatly overcome any embarrasment or anxiety and focus on him over friends if you don't want to end the relationship.
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Thanks for the advice it helped!! I don't think I want to end my relationship with my boyfriend over friends.
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