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Hey everyone!

I have been noticing something here on this website, and it's annoying me at an excessive level. How can people be like this?

I just saw a question about how there's a 24 year old woman who wanted to be with a 21 year old man, and the answers are all like "oh your age gap is not a problem"

But when there's a question about a 14 year old girl wanting to be with a 17 year old, the answers say "he's too old for you." -.- Really? It's the same thing! The age gap is the same size, yet people make such a big deal of it when the people are younger. >:(

Why does it have to be this way? Is there a specific reason why people don't think that an age difference matters at an older age, but when it happens with teenagers, people disapprove right away?

Can anyone PLEASE explain to me why? It just doesn't make sense to me. This angers me in ways I can't even understand.

Thank you to everyone who answers in advance, really. (link)
Mostly it can be for safety because young girls sometimes can think with there hormones instead of their heads and you don't want a baby having a baby so its safer if she waits until she's ready to date without needing kissing advice?and also girls tend to trust any guy they like and sometimes that can land them in a lot of trouble hopefully your question is now answered:) otherwise send me a inbox. Jessica XOXOXXX


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1) I do trust him, on many levels. But that does not mean I will let him do anything sexual with me, at all
2) Dont assume that I will allow that
3) you also don't know him as well as I do




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