Hi, im a 19 year old girl, i been with these guy for a year, as a couple. But i know him since i was born, we were raised together. His 24 years old. Im also 37 weeks pregnant. We been living together for 6 months. The problem is, that i want to leave him but i dont know how. Im tired of everything. He spends the whole day critizing me and humiliating me. He berly touches me. He is not romantic, he doesnt even pay for my stuff when we go out. I have to pay for my part. He ignores me when ever he wants. And he thinks im his freaking maide. Point blank he treats me like shit. Theres nothing good i can say about him. He blames me for every little thing even if is not related to me. He berly shows any affection with me being pregnant. The only thing he cares is himself, his friends, his car, and the gym. We are not included. I dont even know if he loves me still. I see that we fight more then were happy. The sex sucks, it always had, he only thinks about him selfs. How can i leave him? Or what should i do? Im 3 weeks before giving birth.
I personaly think that you should gain some ground and take a minutes to think about this decision its seems like a very tough one.I think it was better to do it sooner but you should consider doing it. if he is not making your life any better what makes you think he will make your childs life any better. the Like i always say the sooner the better. i bet your probably thinking about how is it going to affect your child, because when a child dosent have there parents together it really breaks them into pieces but you also have to understand is that it happens every day. Its really up to you, but all i suggest is like the book says "ITS NOW OR NEVER"
Sincerely Rey Rincon
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Thank you! Yes thats my biggest problem, is my daughter. I was raise by a single parents, so was him. We both nerver had our fathers with us. So thats whats holding me back the most.
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