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Hello, I am 18 and a babysitter. I babysit a little 2 year old for a couple who is 22 and 23. I watch him from the time the mom leaves for work at around 10:00 am to when the dad gets home from work which is around 5:30. My parents have to drop me off and pick me up because we only have 2 cars and they take one to work and my brother takes one to work. So, when the dad gets home, I hang out until one of my parents comes for me. We talk sometimes but I realized it's real awkward. Like, when we talk, we don't look each other in the eyes but when we do, he smiles a lot. He asks me about my life and seems genuinely interested when I talk about it. I'm moving into college soon and he asks me questions about that and that he'll miss me when I stop babysitting. Sometimes his son will want something and I'll go to help him and his dad will go to help him, too and we'll both look at each other and smile at each other that we both jumped to help him at the same time. Sometimes his son will do something funny and I'll chuckle and he'll look at me for a few seconds, then smile and then look at his son and tell him he's silly. I don't know what I'm trying to get at, he's 22 and married, he can't be interested in me but I can't figure out why our encounters are so awkward. Please tell me what you think and what I should do. Thanks. (link)
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I personally don't think he's interested.
But even if he was it doesn't change anything. You shouldn't have an interest in breaking up a marriage (right? That's just a guess-most people aren't into that) and he's married and seemingly happy.
Let it go,do nothing but watch his little one and get paid for it. (Much better gig than being that kid's step mom.)
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