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Hi, Im 19 and so is my boyfriend. I was pregnant and was having a tubal pregnancy so they removed it this Sunday. Before my pregnancy we weren't together but once i got pregnant with him he came back. I told him the only reason he got back with me was because of the baby. he keeps telling me thats a lie. well anyways yesterday i told him to go to my house. He couldn't because he was at a party, so he told me he would come the day after. so I called him today and he was sleeping almost the whole day. I go on Facebook and i see hes at the movie theater with his friends and a girl that's likes him a lot. im so dissapointed. After I told him to meet me at my place he does something else. I keep texting him but no reply because hew in the movie theaters. I have a bad feeling specially with this girl at the movies. i don't know what to do anymore. I feel like im the only one fighting to keep the relationship going. What should I tell him or do? please help me out . Sorry this is long :(
It does, as horrible as it may be, sound like he doesn't want to be with you. So, instead of fighting over a guy who doesn't support you, why not jsut let him go?
I appriciate that the idea of being a single parent can be quite scary, but you shouldn't stay with someone for the sake of the baby, because the relationship will only get even more strain put on it.
If I were you I'd explain how you feel. Do it lightly for now, as he is entitled to freedom. Say something like 'I just feel like we're growing apart' or 'do you think you could support me a bit more'
By saying this he'll act in one of two ways: agree or disagree.
If he agrees its for the best, because its better to split up with someone before they have the chance to cheat.
Jut remember that he may have found someone else, but in the future you'll find someone else who accepts you for you and does actually support you, and he'll live to regret it.
I know it may be hard to actually sit someone down and tell them how you feel, but you have to think about whether you'll be happy in 1 or even 10 years time if things continue as they are.
Good luck with everything :)
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