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Hey 18(almost 19/f) So I have been with my boyfriend just short of three years. I love him more than I have loved anyobe else in my life. I truly believe we have a long future together. However there's just one problem,sex. I lost my virginity to him when I was almost 17.(he was a virgin too) It was extremely awkward and just didnt go to plan. After that we tried a few more times but with the same result. I put it down to not being ready so we put it off for another while. We never really have sex just mess around but when we try its just painfully disappointing. It doesnt feel like anything to me?!No pain or pleasure I just feel a weird feeling in.my tummy. I can't orgasm from fingering either just from him rubbing my clit. I don't think I come either once or twice I think but usually not. Whats wrong with me?I am relaxed before sex and we do spend time on foreplay. Also when we try his oenis keeps like slipping out? Ive tried to be paitient because he is just as inexperienced as me but its soo frustrating. Also when he comes he just goes soft straight away and cant get hard again. is this normal?I have heard of people having sex multiple times a night but he says it doesnt work like that?can anyone help me im at the point where I think il just give up on sex and i dont want that! were strong enough not to let this effect us and we play around a lot but i want a decent sex life! any advice appreciated please only answer if you are experienced. Thank you (link)
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Maybe it's the things you're thinking about during sex. Maybe you're too focused on the problems you have instead of what it feels like to actually have an orgasm. You need to imagine what an orgasm feels like and ignore everything else. I remember when I started masturbating, I had the same problem. I just couldn't get an orgasm. At all. So i asked/saw a question on here (I don't really remember which) & someone said this. So i tried it and (after many tries) it worked! So i suggest you try this
Good Luck & I hope I helped!
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thanks I appreciate that and I do concenteate on the orgasm but i guess I could try more.However I just dont think I can orgasm from pennetrative sex. You didn't answer my question about him slipping out and being able to get hard again,though.
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