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hey, i am a columnist on here and i love helping people but now i need some help back. I've been involved with this guy over a year now, we happen to love each other. He redefined my perspective on love, on life, on MYSELF. He is... amazing.

But i live in a very strict old fashion christian family and i'm literally the only girl in my generation. My family doesn't even allow me to date and i'm EIGHTEEN!!!! Yeah... it's that bad.

But anyway... me and the guy were having sex... and he came in... not just a little bit. the full on throttle shot DEEP in there. i tried to wipe it out but idk if it did anything.

Now before you say where is the protection... talk to trojan. there condemn ripped... beautiful right?

But anyway whats my next move... i can't swallow pills (the morning after thing) and i could wait to c if i get my period but my body is wierd and i only get my period once every three-four months...

So what's my next move?

Simple straight-forward answer: use a pregnancy test! Just so you know, taking one right now will probably give you a false/questionable response, plus you say your periods are irregular, so what I would do is take a test in two weeks to confirm if you are pregnant or not BUT if you are really panicked right now, I would go and buy one asap! Just meaning your results may not be as accurate.. But by the sounds of it, honestly the odds could be that you are pregnant. Please don't stress until you know the fact though. As you may know, late periods can be caused by many things including stress and as I do not know when your next period is, please just breathe for now.


Also, I hope you talked to your guy about this. He needs to know, not necessarily now, but later once you've taken a pregnancy test.. whatever you do, do not try telling your parents about this right now. Wait until you've had a test and talked to your guy. If anything you should let your boyfriend know that you are worried about the condom breaking the other day and likely he will help calm you, as you've already said he is an amazing guy. I know what it's like to feel that connection with someone, so please talk to him and think about this together.. about the 'what ifs' - I'm sure he will understand. Discussing this calmly with him after the fact of a pregnancy test would likely be best... but either way, it needs to be done. So take a test, talk to your guy, then see where to go from there. If you need, feel free to inbox me to talk

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(Rating: 5) Thank you, VERY MUCH. for your help. and i was worried about that. But yes the guy knows he is the one that saw it was broken and told me he was worried which worried me. But yes, i guess i will wait the two weeks period. im going to ask you a question in ur inbox.
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