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I like this 17 year old, but my parent's won't allow me to date him. My heart is set on him and i can't just let him go.. I really like him and he really likes me... What should i do? (link)
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Hi, I'm 14 too and I also like a guy that's 17 and my parents don't (I guess I could say) want me to be with! What a coincidence! But ya anyways...
You should include additional information about his personality, how he treats you, why your parents might not like him, etc.
Have you thought about why they don't want you to be with him? It could be anything big or small, like I know and accept why my parents don't want me to be with my 17-year-old. In fact I agree with their reason, but it isn't a big enough reason for me to listen to avoid liking him anymore. Their reason is that he has a lot of girls flirting with him, but it really doesn't bother me because he isn't mine. He's not my boyfriend so I can't get mad for nothing.
You should do what I do and accept the reasons why, whether you agree with them or not. My parents also have reasons that I don't agree with. With your parents it may be that he has an addiction problem, he's a delinquent, he's insecure, possessive, abusive, etc. It really can be anything. If it's the age difference, remind them that there are successful couples that are far apart (My parents are 12 years apart and they've been together for 18 years!)
But if it isn't any of those things, then take him home with you one day and (beforehand of course, you really shouldn't surprise them because they will have another thing against you) tell your parents that you'd like for him to come over, and ask for a day that this can happen. Then tell your boyfriend the same day (after you've told your parents about it) and set a date. Then, when that day comes, you have your talk with them and then straighten things out.
Make sure he's comfortable with it though, and do it on a day
I hope I helped and I hope you took the time to read all of this! If you did, then Thank You and I really do hope you straighten this out and please let me know what happens, it might help me with mine. (feedback)
Good Luck !!!
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My parent's don't want me to be with him bc i'm 14 and he's 17.... and my parents are 7 years apart... i tried to talk my step dad into meeting him. He is a good kid and makes good grades. He's a sweetie and can make me smile when i feel terrible.... I talked to them about meeting him and they said they would rather me not talk to him or have anything to do with him, and i'm just a little to stubborn to listen to him....
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