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I'll answer question on pretty much anything, though as I'm studying psychology and from past experience, I'm best at answering questions about love life, mental illness as well as giving career advice or job advice. I am also really into fashion and love these types of questions!. Oh and any pet help...
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me and my bf text or vidchat 24/7. its long distance and weve been dating for almost a year and a half. sometimes, like lately, he just gets on my nerves and does/says little things that peeve me. of course we love each other buy is it reasonable to experience this? should we cut down on talking or does this mean my relationship is failing
This is normal-in most relationships you get to the stage where you almost get 'too comfortable' because all the exciting getting to know each other part has gone.
I'd say cut down on the talking slightly-limit it to five days a week, then 4 etc. Its up to you, but don't talk constantly otherwise there'll be nothing to say when you meet up with him in person again. Afterall, absense makes the heart fonder, but communication is the key to a succesful relationship.
Let him know that you'll limit the contact so that he doesn't think your breaking up with him. It's strange, but alot of the time by doing the opposite of what you want you get what you want in the end!
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