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I'll answer question on pretty much anything, though as I'm studying psychology and from past experience, I'm best at answering questions about love life, mental illness as well as giving career advice or job advice. I am also really into fashion and love these types of questions!. Oh and any pet help...
I have an average rating of 4.5 on here. Only inbox me questions that are short please and not about death/suicide. Honestly, there's nothing more dull that opening your inbox to 'I want to die'.
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I love his personality but Im not attracted to him physically at ALL. I don't want to sound shallow but that's how I feel. I could talk to him for hours on the phone and laugh and have a great time but when I look at him I just don't feel like I could kiss him. I feel like the most I could do is cuddle and hold hands. I feel horrible and I wish I could be physically attracted to him but I'm not. What should I do?
This is what happened to me. After 5 months I never kissed by ex because I just-couldn't, so I get what you mean.
Without sounding patronising, love isn't just about looks, so I'd put this to one side for now and love him for who he is.
Also, just because everyone else kisses each other in relationships doesn't mean you have to. In fact it proves theres a strong bond if you guys are together regardless of being sexualy attracted to each other but more in love with each other deeply.
What I would suggest is to pull yourself to kissing him. I know it's hard, but you could always do it when coming out from a hug. Just try it once, and then you'll know whether you like it or not!
And I would reccomend that you try it because otherwise he could get the impression that you don't fancy him, and then things could take a turn for the worst.
Good luck :)
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Thank you(: I'm going to overlook the physical attractiveness for now and give it a try.
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