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I'll answer question on pretty much anything, though as I'm studying psychology and from past experience, I'm best at answering questions about love life, mental illness as well as giving career advice or job advice. I am also really into fashion and love these types of questions!. Oh and any pet help...
I have an average rating of 4.5 on here. Only inbox me questions that are short please and not about death/suicide. Honestly, there's nothing more dull that opening your inbox to 'I want to die'.
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My family is very roudy and not like normal fams really. I mean my moms family was normal why are ours all unclassy like? I'm tired of this stupid shiz. Why does a college drop out living under her mom's roof who disrespects her mom and eats up all the food still be able to be in this family. I HATE my oldest sister. You have know Idea what she has caused over the years. Stuff so deep I won't get into it. I'm 14 and did I mention she has attacked me and my 17 yr old sister??? Because of HER I almost got taken by cps because when we lived in an apartment there were fights all the time and the neighbors knew something was wrong but they assumed it was my mother. SOOO WRONG! Now that she was such a bad kid, our mom sometimes takes her anger out on me and my other sister. She has changed big time. I just hate this. I wish I could leave far away from this family. I want out. I have 3 more years to go and I don't know how much I can take. Please can someone give me advice???
Ps. My 19 yr old sister has a permit but she SUCKS at driving. No wonder she has no license. She doesn't act her age she acts as immature at me. And I'm 14!!! Literally and everybody sees it. She's also a perv...I won't say what happened with my old dolls I use to play with when I was like 10...but you can all make your own assumptions.
Sorry for making this long, one more thing, she has jobs but that's not good enough. She is so stupid because she was in college with an apartment and a job and couldn't hold her own. What a dumbass. Any advice?
Hey,
Okay, so I'm not sure what it is exactly that you want advice on.
But I'm going to give you my advice.
It sounds like your sister is going through a bad patch in her life. And the thing she needs the most is the support of her family. So by telling people her antics on here your not exactly being a supportive sister are you?
Sit down with her, be a friendly face and a listening ear, but don't keep critising her no matter how much she annoys you, because she's your sidter, and some people would do anything to have a sister. You should love her unconditionally,no matter her antics.
If you really think she needs help talk to this about your mum-she may feel the same.
Good luck :)
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Thanks and I get how you and others feel but this isnt someone who is exactly a rational person. She has done the entire family wrong. It's like I have 1 sister which is my other sister. I would do anything for my other sister but this 19 yr old...no. It's hard to. There's so much that she's done that I won't get in to. But I do thankyou for the advice. My mom has told us we have to treat her like she is the smallest one since she is like that. She is an oppertunist and we can't let her use us like that when we're older. But anyway, thanks.
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