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Just a couple of things which everyone should know..1) A love relationship is a TWO way thing, you BOTH have to be on the SAME page.. Communication is vital. FACT.
2) You don't need negative people in your life to bring you down, you get enough of that as it is. You need positive people, to raise you higher.. FACT.
3) Believe in yourself, if you start to, everyone else will. So focus on the good things, because that is what you will naturally flaunt.. Which makes everyone focus on the good things! TRUTH.
4) You only live once, so don't screw it up! Make the most of this ONE life! FACT.
5) Life's all about making mistakes, forgiving, letting go, falling in love, making friends, and best of all, LAUGHING OUT LOUD!! ;) Laughter IS the best medicine.. Trust me! ;) FACT.
Got some love life issues? Need a quick self-esteem boost? Confused in a relationship? .... Just ask Venzuela!
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hey i'm the 12 year old girl with the 16 year old bf. alot my friends have really older boy friends.and they've had sex before. i'm really not sure what i should do? my friends are always talking abuot how they had sex. sometimes they would ask me if i've had sex with my bf and they know i'll say no. should i have sex with my bf?
Love, the fact that you're posting this on a website for advice from millions of people around the world just shows that you aren't ready. The millions of helpful advisers on this site could not possibly know if you are ready, if you are emotionally ready, for sex or not.
Do you want to lose your virginity because everyone else was doing it, or because YOU, yourself wants to? Because you, yourself, feels safe, secure and loved.
Don't do it for others. Don't do it for your friends, or for your boyfriend. Do it for yourself. And from what I read, you clearly are not ready.
Legally you aren't supposed to, there MUST be a reason it is not allowed legally, right? Read up on the psychological effects of having sex at a young age. Besides the psychological effects, are you, yourself, able to provide for a baby, financially, emotionally etc.?
Just be sure that whatever you choose to do, it is because it is what you want, and it's something you will not regret.
Ask Venzuela
(Rating: 5) YOU SAVED ME! no really i forgot about coming here and telling you wut happned but you made me think again b4 i went and did it wit him he was alreayd cheating on me with three other girls he had sex with liek fbuddies! he got HERPES i found out later from one girl he gave it to when we were supposed to still dating and he dumped me cuz i wudnt have no sex at all wit him! THANK YOU!