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~A little Advice for the broken hearts~
You are afraid and hurt and you dont know what to do. You feel empty and alone, like the whole world has just ended. You have a hole in your heart one that feels like it can never be repaired, but just know that in time that hole will be gone. Getting your heart broken is like getting a deep cut. It hurts really bad, and no matter what you do you cant stop thinking about it because you know its there and its hurting, but with a few stitches and a little tlc (friends and family helping you through) and some antibiotic ointment (ice cream) soon that cut will only be a scar (a memory) it will always be there but it wont hurt anymore, you are strong and you can make it through this!!
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well, i go to a university but I am a commuter student. Right now, I am going into my junior year. I'm a psych major but I plan to get my masters in higher education administration, which is like to work in a university (advisor, counselor, admissions), and maybe pursue a doctorate to become a dean or even a professor. Right now, I go to a good, well respected school. a lot of my friends go to IV league schools and sometimes I feel kind of stupid. Even tho I go to a good school, I mean, it's a state school. But, I guess the reason why I feel a little bad is because I live at home still. I am trying to live the college experience to the fullest because I go to a real school. I'm joining a sorority and i"m in a bunch of other clubs as well. I want to do something called peer advising, which is like working in orientations and stuff like that. You help out freshman and transfer students. It also pertains to what I am doing. However, you cannot take classes over the summer if I decided to do it. If I take classes over the summer, I can graduate early. If I don't, I graduate on time. The only perk to graduating early would be that I'd finish my masters quicker. the downside is I'm actually enjoying myself and I don't want it to go away so fast. :)... I would just like to not live at home. I love my family, but I feel the need to spread my wings already. What I was thinking is that with the money I would get from peer advising (because they get paid... and very well)... I could move out. so i have three options:
1) don't do peer advising, graduate early
2) do peer advising, graduate on time, and enjoy myself (living at home)
3) do peer advising, graduate on time, and enjoy myself (moving out)
advice is appreciated. please and thank you.
you seem to want to keep your fun day for a little while longer which is okay but you also want out of the house so option 3 seems to be the best option here.... you have the rest of your life to work... so graduate on time and not early but also move out and enjoy your independance good luck
(Rating: 5) thank you :) i think that would be the best option also :D