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Hi. I've lived quite a life since childhood. My parents divorced when I was 14. I was married at 19 and only lasted about a year and a half. Then I really explored my sexual side because I thought I was a failure with my parents and my own love life. For a while during that time, I thought I was going to become a lesbian because I was feed up with men. I traveled around the country and stayed at different relatives homes for a while. I even tried college for a short time but always felt lost. I finally settled down at 30 with a decent, loving man, that treats me well. I hope that I can help you if you decide to come to me for advice.
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I have had sex a few times with my boyfriends, but I have never gotten the chance to take it. My boyfriend tried to get it in the other day, but he is very very thick and it hurt way too bad for me to take it. Is there any way for me to stretch back there so that it will fit in? We did use a lube, and plan to always use lube. I just want to try taking it, but it hurt so badly. Please give me some advice as for how to stretch myself out. Thanks!
Have him try to finger you first. The best would be if he could suck on you while he inserts a finger but you could masturbate if he doesn't want to do that. Have him start with one finger and let him work his way up to 3 or 4 fingers. This will let your anus to relax and be able to stretch a little more easily. When he's ready to enter you, have him do it slowly with just the head inside. When he does go inside, I would suggest stroking your penis, as this will distract a little from the initial pain. If it still doesn't help, they do sell anal ease, that sort of numbs the area and will be less painful. I hope this helps and good luck.
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The advice was great. I am looking forward to following it and seeing how everything turns out! Thanks a bunch! :)
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