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~A little Advice for the broken hearts~
You are afraid and hurt and you dont know what to do. You feel empty and alone, like the whole world has just ended. You have a hole in your heart one that feels like it can never be repaired, but just know that in time that hole will be gone. Getting your heart broken is like getting a deep cut. It hurts really bad, and no matter what you do you cant stop thinking about it because you know its there and its hurting, but with a few stitches and a little tlc (friends and family helping you through) and some antibiotic ointment (ice cream) soon that cut will only be a scar (a memory) it will always be there but it wont hurt anymore, you are strong and you can make it through this!!
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Alrighty, I am 16 female. He is 17. We have been aquaintences for, I guess 6 years. This past week, we spent six days together over night and everything. Mind you, this guy has a sense of humor most find unappealing or rude. But! If you get to know him, he is a sweet boy and only jokes. These past six days we were at a music festival. He was being nicer to me than normal. During the school year, he gave me rides home and such but this week it was like a new boy. We got matching bracelets from the music festival. Him and his friends went into the mosh pit during one of their favorite bands and after the band was done, they came back to the group and he fell into me because he was so tired, he also drank from my water bottle. There was also a candle lighting and we stood next to each other, when his blew out, he re-lit it on mine. His friends even walked ahead of him back to where we slept and he walked next to me. Then the wax started coming down his candle onto his hand and it was hurting him so the group of his friends and mine all started dumping the candles so the wax would fall and he usually dumped mine. Then we played in some water with rocks and we would splash each other. Also, one of the adults wanted to get a picture of him and his friends so I backed out because it was him and just the guys and then she took to picture and he realized I backed away and he grabbed me in a hug and we got a picture just him and I. Later that night, his friend took the place I was sitting, next to my friend so I asked if I can stand by him and he put his arm around me and said sure.
All of that made me think that he likes me but I look in the past and he doesn't ever text me and when I text him he doesn't answer or he answers very short.
What do you think? Does he like me?
PS--he has a girlfriend, but he never talks to me about her, he is going on vacation with her in 2 weeks, he just told me where he was going, he didn't say he was going with her but his friend told me he is. Idk why he wouldn't talk to me about her.
By the way yo put it he really likes you but since he is in a relationship I advise you talk to him about the way you are feeling and the way you think he may be feeling toward you and let him know that if he wants to get more involed with you the other girl needs to go but if he wants to stay in his relationship it would be best to respect that and step back but you can still be friends i hope everything works out for you good luck best wishes
(Rating: 5) What a confusing situation. Thank you so much, though!