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Hi. I've lived quite a life since childhood. My parents divorced when I was 14. I was married at 19 and only lasted about a year and a half. Then I really explored my sexual side because I thought I was a failure with my parents and my own love life. For a while during that time, I thought I was going to become a lesbian because I was feed up with men. I traveled around the country and stayed at different relatives homes for a while. I even tried college for a short time but always felt lost. I finally settled down at 30 with a decent, loving man, that treats me well. I hope that I can help you if you decide to come to me for advice.
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Okay, so I'm gonna keep it short. I'm 20 years old, and my boyfriend and I have been together steadily for six years. Our sex isn't all that I feel like it should be, and I'm wondering why not and how should I go about improving this. Even when the experience feels pretty good, I rarely EVER get my 'big finish", and he ALWAYS gets his, and he always thinks I've gotten mine. I don't know what to do! I want us to fix this problem asap! Please advise me! Thanks =)
Stop letting him think he's doing a great job when he's obviously not. Of course he'll keep doing the same thing if you never tell him that something is wrong. Take some of the things that you do while you masturbate to achive orgasm and use it during your sessions with him. Don't be afraid to stop him part way through to prolong his orgasm and give you a chance to get a little more worked up. Try spending a little more time kissing, touching and general foreplay. Women need to be stimulated mentally as well as physically. If these things don't work, sit down and have an honest discussion with him but make sure you don't sound like your attacking his manhood because he will get defensive. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Thanks a lot. I think part of our problem is that we tend to always get straight into the act, not nearly enough stimulation, and you're right, if I don't tell him, he'll never know.
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