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Hi. I've lived quite a life since childhood. My parents divorced when I was 14. I was married at 19 and only lasted about a year and a half. Then I really explored my sexual side because I thought I was a failure with my parents and my own love life. For a while during that time, I thought I was going to become a lesbian because I was feed up with men. I traveled around the country and stayed at different relatives homes for a while. I even tried college for a short time but always felt lost. I finally settled down at 30 with a decent, loving man, that treats me well. I hope that I can help you if you decide to come to me for advice.
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Okay so there is this real close friend of mine.We are classmates. And we had this sleepover, a couple of us, guys and girls. I just broke up two months back with my bf who cheated..so i am still getting over it...And my friend broke up a few days ago. We ended up chatting throughout the night, and i dont know what happened but we ended up kissing each other too..it was not our intention of doing ANYTHING like that. we pretty much have feelings for our ex's and not each other. i dont know why and how it happened.
we have promised not to tell this to anyone. and that this incident will stay a secret between the two of us forever. but i feel weird about it, i feel disgusted for doing such a stupid thing now. do you think things will change because of this? i am scared he would tell someone which i really dont want.HELP. how should i handle this?
There's a lot of things to consider. How close of friends are you, how long have you known him, do you find him attractive, does any of your friends like him and could you see yourself dating him? If something does come up right now, you can play it off like....yeah we were playing truth or dare and I kissed him but that was all. Lots of people have rebound relationships and I think that's what happened. You were feeling hurt and alone and this guy was there and convenient, so you kissed him. It made you feel attractve and a little less hurt...which most people do in your situation. I wouldn't worry about it right now but if he does try to date you, then you should sit down and have a talk with him. I hope this helps and good luck.
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thanks (:
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