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Okay so there is this real close friend of mine.We are classmates. And we had this sleepover, a couple of us, guys and girls. I just broke up two months back with my bf who cheated..so i am still getting over it...And my friend broke up a few days ago. We ended up chatting throughout the night, and i dont know what happened but we ended up kissing each other too..it was not our intention of doing ANYTHING like that. we pretty much have feelings for our ex's and not each other. i dont know why and how it happened.
we have promised not to tell this to anyone. and that this incident will stay a secret between the two of us forever. but i feel weird about it, i feel disgusted for doing such a stupid thing now. do you think things will change because of this? i am scared he would tell someone which i really dont want.HELP. how should i handle this?

Heyy sorry I just got onto my account, but believe it or not, this does not mean you like each other. Here is how you should handle this:
1) Talk to them again and tell them how you would really like it if they kept it personal because it wasn't meant to happen.
2) Do not avoid the friend, act like nothing happened and they will tag along and act the same way. That way, you guys will both be friends just like it was before it all happened.
3) Don't panic, make sure to understand that it was all an accident and it will make you stop thinking about it.
4) Try to gain trust into the friend and soon they will start to forget about it.
5) No matter what, after talking to them about keeping it a secret, DO NOT bring it up. Let them forget.
Hope this helps,
P.S Wishing you the best of luck
♥gamergirlxoxo♥

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