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Q: hey there(: once again i really thank you for your advice!! and you said that it would help you if I gave you more details so i figured i would give you some first ill put my question on here again so you can look at it then i'll put the details!
my question

well first off i am a teenager and a female and the other night(3 days) i had the best dream i have ever had and everysinse i think about it all the time and i have a smile on my face! ok heres the dream it was me and this guy i realllllly like i mean really like and he dont know i like him or anything but we held hands and kissed and things like that in my dream and the thing i remember most is when we held hands and it made me sooo happy(: but then at the end of my dream (before i woke up) i tried to kiss him and he shook his head because he had a gf but he only had a gf at the end of the dream and not at the beginin when he aloud me to kiss him idk it was wierd but i loved it when we held hands! btw he is kinda a celebrity and not but maybe 1 or 2 years older than me i really hopes this means something good(: becuase i reallly like this guy!

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ok now here are the details like you said would help trust me i defintly remember! ok so you said about the gf thing well in real life he does have a gf but they are only teenagers so they pretty much wouldn't get married but anyway you said about the colors and surrondings well i really dont remember what i was wearing haha but i remember it looked like we where on a screened in porch and it was like maybe in a tropical climate that would remind me of florida i was on the computer out there and he was sitting by me on my right and (btw this was at the end of the dream basicaly) and also the computer was an older version desktop and like this is the part of the dream i cherish and remember the most i was typin something and we were holding hands basicaly mine was just laying on top of his then i had to type some thing so i moved my hand to type then i reached over to hold his hand again and this time we were really holding hands just not mine over his but we really held hands and then i looked up at him and that was like the best moment ever when i saw his face and like my outside body out of the dream i felt something litteraly felt something like i got that happy feeling and like i probaly was smiling haha but it didn't even feel like a dream it felt sooo real it was wonderful(: then after i looked at him i wanted to kiss him and he simply shook his head no and it was weird because he didn't say why he wouldn't let me but i instintly knew why and then i woke up. i almost don't even have words to say how amazing it really was and like i said if it kinda make sense it didnt even really feel like a dream. i think i remember what he was wearing i think it was a solid color t-shirt either blue or pink or maybe it was one of those checked button up shirts i don't quite remember but i'm sure it was one of those and then i think a pair of white or khaki shorts. now for the last thing the beggining of the dream i remember we where in florida i think or maybe it was gulf shores and we where at this resteraunt that was on the beach and then i rand up to him and we kissed! but at the end of the dream he didnt't let me kiss him. the most part i enjoyed thouh was the holding hands when i looked up at him after we gathered hands and he smiled(: last detail he don't technicaly have a job singing is his job he is famous and he is a singer and a teenager. i hope this helps sorry if i put to much i was just trying to give you a lot of details please tell me some more of what you think, you are really helping me(: thanks!
I'm SO happy that I helped you! Thank you so much for your feedback! Very interesting! the reason i asked you to remember all those details is because it helps your memory and helps you remember more. Obviously, this is someone who you mentioned you were REALLY interested in. So, he is in your thoughts, and he is is appearing in your dreams. Like I mentioned, colors and things like that mean different things to different people. But, remembering details is interesting when you are trying to find patterns in your dreams. I think that this is probably a fantasy of yours. You want to be alone with him. It's very interesting that you said that he didn't say it, you just knew it. It's like all the communication in the dream is telepathy. When you are happy in a dream and it feels so real, it's that it is very much in your working memory. What I meant by the job, is that his career, being famous and that represented a girlfriend. That's where his commitment is, you may think. But, if you know that he really does have a girlfriend, then it just may be that you feel like she is in the way and that she's the main thing not letting you be with him... but at the same time, you don't see her as much of a threat because she doesn't even appear in the dream and he doesn't even really mention her. You know she is present, but you don't see her as a threat. That is what I think! Feel free to inbox me if you have any other questions!

U are very welcome and Thank u again I'm so happy to have someone care and want to help like u do(: THANK YOU(:

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I started this column when I was 15 years old, so you'll notice that the advice has gotten better and better. I've always been interested in counseling and I started this column to gain experience. But, I found a lot more than that. I found a support system of caring and loving people. I received a degree in child development and currently working towards becoming a school psychologist. So, I hope you can feel confident in trusting me with your questions. This is more than just a fun site for me. I look back on my own questions from years ago, and I laugh when I read about my problems at 16. I've really come a long way! I'm relatively young, but I've had several experiences in life that have aided me in helping others. I hope to use those experiences for the greater good and help others who are not in their ideal situation!

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