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So, in the first day of high school I met this guy, and I instantly liked him. We talked throughout the year and by June I really liked him. Unfortunately, he moved to the States that summer. But we've still kept in touch, especially in grade 10. Recently we've webcamed and I realized how much I really like him and how much I miss him. He's all I can think about now and I REALLY like him alot. But am I wasting my time with him? I'm probably not going to ever see him again. Should I tell him that I like him, or would he find that awkward? What should I do? I mean I've liked him for three years now (I'm 17 now), he's the first person I've ever really liked...

What should I do?

Hi,
You should tell him you like him the next time you talk to him. It will not be awkward as long as you are talking casually and have hinted that you like him. After you do that, make sure he feels the same way, find out if you two will be in contact again (in person or cell) and then see if you can make a relationship work. Long distance relationships can work, they just take a lot of hard work and dedication. If you are both willing to put that in, you have yourself a successful relationship :)


Start by talking to him and see how he feels though. If he likes you as much as you like him, great; start something. If not, you can always be good friends and visit eachother whenever he can come back to where you live or visa versa. Write eachother letters! Letters can be handwritten AND cute cuz you can keep them forever; double bonus!


Instead of thinking about this all the time, take some action! It is better to try and know the truth than to wonder and never know

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(Rating: 5) Thank you! I really appreciate the advice :)I'll definitely try and get something going. I guess you'll never know till you try!
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