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I'll answer question on pretty much anything, though as I'm studying psychology and from past experience, I'm best at answering questions about love life, mental illness as well as giving career advice or job advice. I am also really into fashion and love these types of questions!. Oh and any pet help...
I have an average rating of 4.5 on here. Only inbox me questions that are short please and not about death/suicide. Honestly, there's nothing more dull that opening your inbox to 'I want to die'.
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19/m
I started talking to one of my old friends, who I used to have a huge crush on. He was so sweet and amazing, but nothing ever came out of it. And he has told me that he has absolutely no feelings for me, but I just can not get over him. I am still so attracted to him that it is not even funny. I want so bad to go out with him, I have for the longest time. But he has no interest. What should I do?
I would just say-let go and move on. But I realize that you want to do anything but.
If you want ANY chance of getting into a relationship with him, you have to make him miss you. So if you're constantly contacting him all the time, he wont miss you.
It's a well known saying "We want what we cannot have"
So by not contacting this man, he thinks your suddenly 'unavailable', and this makes him what to have you more. Follow?
The next thing to do is to go out with some mates and have a great time. Word will get back that you are doing well. He will take interest in you all over again.
Eventually, when he reopens the lines of communication, he'll ask to meet up somewhere. And thats where you can woo him with how amazing your life is-he'll want to be a part of it.
Guys often say the opposite of what they mean. The last person that said they did not fancy me, asked me out two months later!
Stick at it and you'll get results. Good luck :)
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It was really good advice, and it would be helpful, but the situation in hand is not conducive to some of the things the answer needed. That is my fault. It was a well thought out answer, and is excellent advice. Thank you!
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