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Q: 15/f
I work with a guy that I think I really like. We started out totally platonically but we've become closer, and after a while he kissed me. Proper kissed me. Then a week later he kissed me again and sort of fingered me - I was in a bad mood that day, couldn't be bothered to fight him but I made him stop pretty soon - and then left it at that. We were both sober. He used to text me a lot but then he just sort of stopped. So it's been 3 weeks since I got with him last and over 1 week since I even spoke to him.

To start with I only wanted casually to get with him, but now I just want to either be with him or not even know him and forget him.

He's a bad boy too, I KNOW how bad he was to his exes, due to being his close friend for a year before this all. He cheats, smokes, etc...

Thanks xx
be direct with this guy.
not to be harsh or anything but i think he was using you for the action.
if your direct with him he will give you a direct answer, you can both work from there, and see how you feel.

Thank you so much, I think I will. I almost asked him last night but I fell asleep before I finished my text :L thanks. Xx

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Hey im Gabiie, i am who i am and a don't plan on changing. i'll tell you what you NEED to hear, and give me honest opinion and suggestions.

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