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Hi. I've lived quite a life since childhood. My parents divorced when I was 14. I was married at 19 and only lasted about a year and a half. Then I really explored my sexual side because I thought I was a failure with my parents and my own love life. For a while during that time, I thought I was going to become a lesbian because I was feed up with men. I traveled around the country and stayed at different relatives homes for a while. I even tried college for a short time but always felt lost. I finally settled down at 30 with a decent, loving man, that treats me well. I hope that I can help you if you decide to come to me for advice.
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Hey(: So I Dont Really Want A Lecture On This Question. But, Im sixteen, and My boyfriend and I have been talking about having sex. We both decided that we want to do it. And Im Aware of all the precautions I need to take already. But i have several questions. Like, will it hurt really bad if i can only fit two fingers while fingering? Does the amount of bleeding just make the situation gross? If Neither of us orgasm, how do we know when were done? And Also, How Long do i need to be on birth control before its save to have sex? (we are also using a condom, dont worry)
Thanks(:
I would wait at least a week after taking birth control before having sex. If you've played with any toys at home (a vibrator or candle), you've probably already broken your hymen and won't have to worry about any blood. Even if you do, it's very minimal. Depending on how large his penis is, will probably determine on how much it hurts. Whatever his size, make sure he goes very slow for the first few minutes. Lots of kissing and touching before he enters you, will help get you excited, which will help lubricate your vagina. I rarely orgasm just from vaginal sex, so more than likely, you won't either. If you really want to have the big O, you may want to rub your clit while he's inside of you. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Thanks, This Helped(:
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