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This long distance relationship is killing me. I have found the person I love more than anything and he lives about 10 hours away. I'm 17 and I still have to finish out high school but sometimes I just feel so depressed and lonely here. What should I do?
try to go out more with your friends i know its very difficult to even distract yourself by doing other stuff trust me im in the same situation and i had a very very bad time when if i wasnt speaking to him or on school id be sleeping :S just to pass the time until i could speak to him again :S 10 hours away its NOTHING compared to 6 hours time difference ! and a whole ocean separating you from your boyfriend, i live in america and my boyfriend in the UK its sooo difficult to speak to him cause when i wake up he's already half a day ahead me ! its killing me !!! but do what im trying to do , like focus alot on school and this helped me pass the time really quick, its harder now cause im on christmas break ! i swear thats the only reason i wanna go back to uni just so i can take my mind a bit off him!!! its aweful, but just think about soon you'll be with him, thats a way that i could go for months without seeing him cause we had some problems and he couldnt come during that time so now its like wow we've been together for 11 months already and he's comming in about 4 weeks !! seems alooooot but i try to focus on other activities although it is veyr hard now on vacations but once you're in school i was studying alot doing homework and doing stuff in advance like starting homework early (trust me im no geek but i started doing SO good at uni and to be honest i was failing some subjects but this helped me cause it was either study and school work or go out with friends or think about him 24/7) it sucks !!! but just think that soon enough you'll be finishing high school, cause think about it and i dont know for you but for me 2010 passed soooo quickly cause i started involving myself in tons of activities(to take my mind off him ) i started going to the gym, studying more, doing homework, reconecting with old friends i didnt see that much anymore . my point is .....i know this situation sucks, but try to make the best out of it just like i did and try to do sometimes but on vacations its almost impossible to be honest too much time in my hands and nothing to do !! positive aspects , i started working out alot eventho i was kinda lazy now my body looks better than ever did hahaha, i did better than i ever in uni my grades were great, and i am very close to my friends and see them very very often like if i could id see them everyday just to take my mind off him , since i was really busy trust me 6 months went flying by! i know its hard but try to make the best out of it and then when you finally take a brake for your thousand activities you realise that time goes by quickly :)!!
if you need someone to talk just tell me trust me i totally understand you ive felt like crying sooo many times and i have cried because i miss him soo much :S .... also try to keep up with each others day thats very important , because by speaking to him like constant texting or just on the phone every day etcetera makes me feel not that sad anymore and actually happy that i will see him soon, if you want someone to talk to or anything you can message me :) trust me i know what you're going through but if you wanna stay with him enroll yourself in alot of activities to pass the time, but of course dont let this take ALL your time or else you'll never speak to your boyfriend hahaha try to excercise or learn something new you always wanted to learn, i even took salsa lessons ! hahahahaha just to pass the time ! but hey it helped since i had a very tight agenda suddenly it was like here we are 11 months later :P!
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Thank You so much for taking the time to help me and I may message you in the future. I really like the idea of taking up with excercising more because I could use it and I can't imagine the time difference it must kill you.... again I really appreciate the advice!!!
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