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Ok, i had sex a very long time ago. my girl friend of 10 months still thinks im a virgin. what should i do.

Hi,
Very simple, logical solution to this: Tell Her The Truth!

If you really love her and have been with her for this long... then she should be able to trust you and know you are there for her and her alone. If you do not tell her, she is bound to find out sooner or later and then you will be in a bigger situation. Telling her now will let her know you care for her, that you want to be honest with her, and that she can trust you. If she finds out this info from a source that isn't you... she will know that you kept this from her, be very disappointed, and will have trust issues with you for quite some time.

Take her to a place where it is just the two of you and let her know the truth. She probably will be mad that you didn't tell her this to begin with, so let her know that you are also sorry and you hope this won't affect your relationship. This is a big thing to keep from a girl. Honesty will get you far in a relationship, as long as you use it

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