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Hi. I've lived quite a life since childhood. My parents divorced when I was 14. I was married at 19 and only lasted about a year and a half. Then I really explored my sexual side because I thought I was a failure with my parents and my own love life. For a while during that time, I thought I was going to become a lesbian because I was feed up with men. I traveled around the country and stayed at different relatives homes for a while. I even tried college for a short time but always felt lost. I finally settled down at 30 with a decent, loving man, that treats me well. I hope that I can help you if you decide to come to me for advice.
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My boyfriend wants me to give him a blow job and I really do want to but I feel weird every time I try to do it. It's not that I feel bad about it but I feel like I'm not doing a good enough job. We've talked about it a lot and he's even given me "tips" on how to do it right. I still feel weird. I want to make him happy and I love him a lot. I over think this entire thing a lot and even have had dreams of it. It's something I DO want to do. How can I get over this hang-up or whatever you want to call it? It's horrible because I can work him up to it and then...I just...can't go all the way through with it. It just feels too weird then. :\
Just don't try to watch porn to get tips on giving a bj, because most guys don't like the way the actresses perform. Your fear may come from the final outcome (that he may cum in your mouth). You need to make sure he understands that he needs to give you a warning before he orgasms so that doesn't happen.
One other thing I wonder, has this guy or any other guy in the past, ever bragged about how great other girls were at giving bj's? That could be a mental block with you and you feel you'll never be good enough then. Either way, just be patient and don't rush it. Maybe some night if you have a few drinks and you feel your inhibitions drop, you may want to give it a try.
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