im always here to help im really good at giving advice mostly about teenage problems not like my computer software crap! look im not supa smart, ask me questions that i'll know. but other than that im great! that doesnt mean i wont have questions of my own im still learning too so if i dont answer a question of yours than dont get mad b.c i havnt been through it. im very honost to people so if u ask i will certainly tell thats my motto! Just one more thing people if you dont like the way i type then get over it. thats how i am and its not like im typing to some important person. well you are but not that important!
E-mail: sml111992@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: NY
Occupation: student
Age: 17
AIM: SLearnarO92
Yahoo: sml111992@yahoo.com
Member Since: February 26, 2006
Answers: 607
Last Update: November 3, 2014
Visitors: 35832
Main Categories:
Work/School Relationships
Love Life
Music
View All
Favorite Columnists
Dragonflymagic
karenR
mariahwannabe
AskJR
|
| |
|
So i am 18 years old and this guy that i worked with was a 30 year old man that is married and has kids. When he first started working there i was attracted to him immediately. He was the manager. We flirted and stuff and he kinda made it known that he was into me but didnt say so directly. He would tell me everyday how i made his day and he loves seeing me. I had a huge thing for him. So he finally gave me his number one night. I would tell him a lot of stuff cause he was my friend. So things got kind of intense when he told me that he wanted to be with me and that im every mans dream and i just dont relize how amazing i am.So we texted all the time and one day i told him i couldnt talk to him anymore but soon said i didnt mean it and i loved him. He wont respond to any of my texts or calls. I so confused. Did i hurt him? Do you think he sincerly cared about me or does he just not care? Im so hurt cause i believed everything he told me. Did i mess up by telling him to leave me alone?? Please give me advicce. Im literally driving myself crazy trying to anlyze everything. I just really need someone else's view poit. (link)
| |
he probally had feelings for you but more sexual then anything else but i dont know what hes been saying and youve been saying to him so i dont really know so to me it sounds like he was just looking for a good time. and it really sucks that he was leading you on like that because he is married and he has kids and maybe he doesnt want to completely loose that. and he knows that if he continues with you everything he has could go away and become a hectic life for him. i have a feeling that hell talk to you again and he will act like nothing happened. call him ask him whats up? or wait until you see him. or maybe just keep your distance for now. you didnt mess up completely maybe you saying that made him realise that he cant be doint what hes doing. and i'm not sure he really cared about you, you could be just one amazing person but he knows can never have.
|
|
Rating: 5
| |
Thank you for your advice. Yeah it could have been sexual feelings but he never told me that cause im not that kind of girl. But i feel bad because hes married and i would never want to ruin someones marriage over a strong attraction. He made vowels with his wife and i have to respect that. He probably thinks im a psycho cause of how many times i have texted him with different emotions and feelings.
|
|