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Hello,

Well theres this guy he works with me well he has a gf and he would flirt with me all the time mostly verbal and too be honest i liked it because i have feelings for him but i told him its best we stop flirting because he has a gf.He got angry and he didn't talk to me so we didn't talk for about a week or so then he called me to tell me that his girlfriend found the emails i sent him (which werent bad)she treats him lik crap and all he always whinges about how bad she treats him,so he tells me they broke up and all then the next day they got back but he came up to me saying i dont think we'll talk as much anymore ? though we werent speaking anyways what was the point of him saying.I still like him though im tying to move on and all but can someone explain it too me did he like me or not ? do you think he'll talk to me or come back or not? sorry if its long i'm lost as it is. (link)


He could of liked you, but what was the point in flirting with you if he was already in a relationship despite how bad she "treated him"?

For one, Any guy who flirts with another girl and then gets angry with him for telling him to stop because he is currently in a relationship is pathetic. You only know she treated him badly by what HE says, Do you actually know if it was true or not?? If someone is in a relationship and flirting with me I would start to think either they aren't really committed or they just want someone for backup. You were RIGHT for telling him to back off, Not only is this guy in a relationship but it is NOT appropriate for co-workers to be flirting while they are on the job. If he gets mad, Tough! He shouldn't be flirting with co-workers nor anyone in this matter. Next time someone pulls a stunt when in a relationship I would drop one on them (I don't think your girlfriend would appreciate it if we were acting like this) Make them think twice and show them you aren't going to be a fall back. Yes, I would move on don't put your job in jeopardy and don't fall for guys that aren't real.


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