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Q: Is it wrong to have a guy best friend? Everyone says stuff about us. That we love each other and that we will be together sometime. Why can't a guy and a girl be best friends? I'm the girl. He's the boy, of course. We are both fifteen. He tells me about the girls he likes and everything. I tell him pretty much everything too. When I'm down or sad, he'll play the guitar for me to make me feel better. We text all the time. He helps me with my homework. He sticks up for me. I stick up for him. He sometimes plays my instrument and he lets me play his drum sometimes. I go to him with everything. Girls are just catty and start drama. Having a guy best friend eliminates all those problems which is why I love my best friend with all my heart for making my life so much easier. We're just.. best friends. Right? What's so wrong with having an opposite sex best friend? And what do I tell people when they make fun of us again? Thanks!
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Put simply: people are stupid. I have had this problem for most of my life, I have always had guy best friends, because like you said it helps to avoid all of that stupid drama that girls like to start. People watch way too much tv where there are 2 best friends, 1 boy and 1 girl, and they fall in love, so they automatically start to think that that happens in reality.
There is nothin wrong with having an opposite sex best friend, my best friend is a guy and also my ex-boyfriend so I get it 10 times worse than anyone :) I have just learned to ignore them all, there is really nothing that you can say to make them stop. You can tell them a hundred times that you are JUST friends and they will continue to think that its impossibile. Just go about your business and keep the friends that you can trust and that you care about around, ignore all the other dumb B!tche$ :)
Hope I Helped :)
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You did help. Thanks a lot! ♥
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I am a 19 year old female. I am the least judgmental person you will ever meet. I am funny. I am free-willed. I am a lover. I am a friend. I have been through alot & many people call me their guru. & I will try to give you the healthiest advice possible. I may be young but I have a lot of life experiences in many areas, and since my career will be giving advice I figured I'd give a head start. I can be blunt and will give you my honest opinion, although I will do it in a nice way.
I am married to an amazing guy, we have been together since my Junior year & we can't be happier. I have 2 dogs & they are my babies, life wouldnt be the same without them. I am going into my 2nd year of college, I plan to get a degree in Radiology.
I am currently really busy in my life but I will answer any and all questions that are sent to my inbox. I do my best to get on & answer as many questions as possible whenever I am on. If you wish for me to answer one of your questions please submit them. Thanks.
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Gender: Female Age: 19 Member Since: July 27, 2007 Answers: 552 Last Update: January 24, 2013 Visitors: 39325
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