this might be hard to follow.
about a month ago me & this guy messed around & almost had sex. i still think i got preggo ,but i got the plan b pill two days after. & then i had my period ,so i'm not pregnant. i know i shouldn't have done anything with him, but what's done is done. anyways, i'm a freshman & he's a senior. i didn't tell anyone but three of my friends. they're all people i know i can trust. but now ,it being a month later ... people know about what i did with that guy *john*. i thought him being a senior, he wouldn't tell anyone ,because i would of thought that it would make him look desperate for going for a freshmen. i didn't tell anyone ,because i didn't wanna be known as a slut. he knows my friend *jessicas* big brother *joe*. joe is 21 ,so he's not in school. but joe has a 17 year old brother that told all his friends at school. so now all my older guy friends know about it & soon, it'll probably be all around school. my mom knows about it, but that's because i told her.
anyway, basically, i just don't know how i'm gonna cope with it. does anyone have anyways that i can just ignore people. or anything? i just hate all of this. :/
anything will help.
okay. do NOT let anybody bring you down, ONCE.
hold your head up high and have confidence in yourself.
you do know you regretted it (i'm assuming you did), you would never do it again (another assumption), and you're smarter than that (hopefully, haha).
i went through a very very similar thing. the gossip and shit ONLY lasted a month. over spring break, i did some shit that i definitely regretted later on. everybody in the school found out about it & i got shit for it everywhere -- internet, formspring, in person, etc.
but i never once let them bring me down.
eventually, people stop talking. one thing can only spark their interest for so long.
i hope i helped, i understand what you're going through, believe me, just dont let shit bother you, ignore it all, being called a 'slut' shouldnt bother you because i guarantee people have done worse (and besides, youre a teenager, youre basically expected to do stupid stuff).
hope i helped. (:
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thank you sooo much . (:
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