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my friend i've known sense i was 9 and he was 16, bumped into each other like 4 months ago. his family spoils me rottin and they treat me as their owin (i mean i've known them sense i was 9). My mom knows he's way older than me but she feels as if he is her son. But wat neither of our parents know is, we have been talking to each other more and more each night, i walk 2 blocks away from my house so he can pick me up and take me to school. During my lunch time he brings me food, and after school he lets me drive his car (i'm praticeing for my linces)he basicly does whtever i ask him to do. its not about sex with him, because if it it was he wold've left me alone a month and a 1/2 ago.
But 2 days ago we were playing a game (21 questions) and out of no where he tells me he wants to be with me FOREVER. then tonight on the phone he tells me AGAIN, he said he would get me a place to stay, help me get a part time job, (he already has a full time job, that pays good)and anything i need he's got it covered. But its the whole FOREVER thing that makes my skin crawl... i'm not sure where my feelings are with him, but i know i like being around him. i know he's serious about "FOREVER" too, but i don't know what to do.
can you give me advice please... i'm confused. (link)
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You are young, He is young...Although he is 21 I highly doubt he has his lifetime commitments down for good.
Being in a relationship with him is iffy, There is a huge age gap between the two of you. If you two were ever to have a sexual relationship it would be classified as statutory rape and although your parents like him all it takes is for one person to spread the word around. If you two were meant to be let it happen, If he really is forever than he should be worth a 2 year wait. Never let a guy fool you into the "forever" thing, Time tells itself were to go.
I would wait
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thank you your advice is very helpful. :)
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