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Q: i'm thirteen i used to be overly obsesseed with this boy and then i moved on, i forced myself toget over him... and i mean it took a while. but just recently he lured me back into liking him again. like four days ago he was flirting with me and all over me but i sort of brused him off... but now i wished i didn't. he is my best friends brother and on friday she really wanted to hook us up. But i wasn't feeling it. Then today he started being flirty with another girl that i am cool with and it is bothering me... what should i do cuz i think i really like him now
what you are describing to me is a player. i know that you may like him, but, i think that you started liking him again because he was "luring" you back. If he wouldn't have done so, then you would have still continued going on with your life. I know it may seem like the world is coming to an end now, but it's not. Once you find someone else who isn't a player, who really appreciates you, you will realize that you are better off. And if you weren't feeling it, it was for a reason. Your women's intuition was telling you otherwise. From what I can tell, you are a smart girl. Don't let a guy like this get the best of you. It's not worth it.

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I started this column when I was 15 years old, so you'll notice that the advice has gotten better and better. I've always been interested in counseling and I started this column to gain experience. But, I found a lot more than that. I found a support system of caring and loving people. I received a degree in child development and currently working towards becoming a school psychologist. So, I hope you can feel confident in trusting me with your questions. This is more than just a fun site for me. I look back on my own questions from years ago, and I laugh when I read about my problems at 16. I've really come a long way! I'm relatively young, but I've had several experiences in life that have aided me in helping others. I hope to use those experiences for the greater good and help others who are not in their ideal situation!

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