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Ok, there was rumors going around that my bf kissed his friend. I was really worried over this and I talked to him about it and he said he never kissed her. He never lied to me before..we've been dating for 3 months now. I feel comfortable with my relationship with him..and I don't want to lose him. I just woke up and was worrying have to death again..so I got on face book and I asked his friend if it was true. Was that wrong of me? The only way I could no for sure would be asking her? I saw that she has a boy friend. My bf knows how worried I get..but I'm worried he will be upset by this...Should I delted the message to her? (link)
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It wasn't wrong of you to ask his friend, However bare in mind that anyone can say anything and sometimes the things you hear aren't always true. The important thing in a relationship is trusting one another and communicating. Even asking the girl who supposedly kissed your boyfriend still there is never a guarantee that you will get the truth even it were true. Chill out, By messaging her you are only going to stress yourself out. Here is something to keep in mind, Sometimes people get jealous and are willing to do anything and say anything to break a couple up. Do not message her not only will it cause a fight but she could end up lying only to tick you off. Just let it go, If your boyfriend were cheating then test him and not by asking him questions look for the signs of cheating...
Sudden change in subjects
Nervous
Doesn't seem to be as affectionate as he once was
Seems to be hiding things from you, Turns off cell phone or lets it go straight to voice mail
Only you know your boyfriend, However don't go jumping to accusations to whether your boyfriend is cheating or not. It will only make him think you don't trust him. The best thing to do for now is to chill out and do not message her.
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