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Ok well I told my friend i liked this guy and she said I think he likes you. Then she said I should ask him out but I didnt want to so she said she would. She asked him out for me and he still didnt say anything. I need to know how to say yes if he asks me out. (link)
I must disagree with the previous responder. Why play games with the guy? If you want to go out with him, and he asks you to go out with him, there is no reason I can see that you shouldn't say "Yes" and actually go out with him.

The reason why he's saying nothing to your friend may be that he'd rather deal with you directly. If that's the case, he's not someone who's going to enjoy being put on hold just because you can.

The way that you say "yes" is to simply say it, and say it in a way that also says you're glad he asked you and looking forward to it. Honesty is the best policy. Mind games are what people hide behind when they're afraid to be honest.

And incidentally, it ain't the 1950s anymore, and you don't have to wait for him to ask you out. You can do the asking, too!


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i wish everyone here was as grown up as you cause taht is the best answer i ever got here! thank you! ps i would never play mind games like the other guy said!!




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