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Q: i know what your thinking... "is this chick stupid?" but hear me out. me & this boy were messing around & he was fingering me. then he started rubbing his "head" on my vagina. he told me i was too tight to even go in ,but through out the time i guess i kinda got a little loosened up or whatever. he said that "only the head was there." no idea what that meant. i just kept telling him to please not go in whatever he did. i don't wanna lose my virginity at 15. so did i just have sex? :/ i wasn't meaning to go that far. OH & he was cumming while rubbing it on my clit. so could i get pregnant? he told me no. idk.
please help . :(
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Okay, first of all if you are NOT ready to have sex, then you probably are putting yourself in a really bad situation with your boyfriend. He is a boy and when those hormones get raging they completely forget about you and how you are feeling about it. Now as for if you had sex, I think that depends on translation, different people are going to tell you different things. Sex is classified as penis inside vagina to most people, and the head of his penis did go inside of you, but others may say if your cherry did not burst(unless it already has because of him fingering you or some sort of activity) then you are still a virgin. I would say that yes you did sorta have sex, although not full on. And yes you could get pregnant, if his sprem even gets near your vagina then there is a chance, sperm is crafty and has one goal, to get to your egg. If you have your period already then yes there is chance that you can get pregnant.
I advise sitting down and really thinking about whether or not you are ready to have sex, if not, then do NOT put yourself in this position with your boyfriend again. Let him know where you stand and if he starts to go too far(like it seems he did this time) stop him. If he really cares about you he will understand, if not he isn't worth it. Also, if you are thinking of becoming sexually active please please please think about protection, such as the birth control pill, patch, or shot, and condoms. If you feel as though you are not ready, let your boyfriend know and stand your ground.
If you need to talk further you may email me at bacardii_caddy@yahoo.com.
Good Luck :)
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