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So I've been friends with this guy for three almost four years, I met him because he was my sister's friend in elementary school. Well I started to like him in eighth grade. But then I met this guy in ninth grade and we started dating, we dated fro a year and we recently broke up. And low and behold I started liking this guy again. The other night he wanted to hang and my sister decided to come. Because she doesn't see him much anymore because she dropped out. Well we all hung out it was a big group. Well She let me play with her phone and I read one of her messages. It was from the guy i like saying he really liked her. I felt kind of sad and realized they were cuddling and hugging and he was holding her hand. So i felt bad. So that night when we got home I asked if she liked him and she said no, he isn't her time. I got mad at her because I don't want her leading him on because he was recently hurt. Well we hung out again today and she did the same thing, cuddled with him and held his hand. It makes me angry and I just wish he'd like me, she's just leading him on and it drives me crazy, we're only a year apart and we go to school together and I see him everyday, he's one of my best friends and I don't know what to do. (link)
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To start off, You are very pretty.
However onto the question..
If you had a boyfriend and you recently gone your separate ways then you really can't be too down about your sister liking the same guy as you were in a relationship. Sometimes people don't always admit when they have feelings for someone, This could be the case. IF your sister is leading him on then I can promise you, It will only be a matter of time before this guy realizes that your sister is a waste of his time. If you like the guy then I suggest playing it by ear, You can try talking to your sister and see what she says but again there is no promise that you will get the truth. Maybe she feels it's her business or she could be just playing the field and trying new things. Ask her about it, If she is set on not liking him well then you approach him and you talk to him.
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Well I talked to her, and she said she wasn't interested in him and he should know that. So I started talking to him the other night and a few days later he kissed me! :] But then my sister told me she kissed him so I'm not sure now, I feel pretty upset.
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