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i have a really close group of friends. and usually i have a lot of fun with them, sometimes i can't stand them. but today was just terrible.

i had the most problems today with one of my better friends lexi. she was just being taking me to seriously and always contradicting herself by what she was telling me. but the thing that really upset me what in social studies. i have that class with lexi, my best friend, and another close friend.

well, sometimes i say stuff and i don't know why like it's weird but i can't control what i say sometimes.. well i started making fun of deaf people and stutters because i was watching a show last night about them. i know what i said was wrong and i wish i could take it back so don't judge me too harshly.

anyways then lexi said 'you know i'm going to laugh hysterically when you go to hell.' and it was just so mean the way she said it like i saw evil in her eyes. but that really bothered me. and it didn't help that my other friend joins in and says 'yeah, me too.' (and she doesn't believe in that stuff) THEN my best friend says stuff too. i can't really recall what she said but she was definately against me.

it didn't feel nice to be ganged up on so i just ignored them and didn't talk to them the rest of the day.

if it bothered me that much that they said that, like i almost started crying and i don't cry at all, does that make me such a bad person.

i just am really upset by that so if you have any advice on what to do please help.

also, i'm sorry this is so long but if you read it all thanks.

honestly, just by this story, i would say that they aren't true friends. i know this use to happen to me sort of and i dont like confrontation, so i didnt want to go up to my friend and say why i wasnt talking to her. so one day online she IMed me and asked if i was mad, so then i dealt with it that way. but if you feel comfortable saying it to her face, then definitely bring it up. neither of them should say things like that, if anything they shouldve just said, "that was mean, you shouldnt make fun of them."
it sounds like the girl who said "yeah me too" is probably a follower and wants to be like lexi so she probably didnt really mean it. but lexi seems like a bitch (no offense) whos insecure with herself so she says stupid shit to her friends.
its possible she was having a bad day and didnt really mean what she said, but if this is a constant thing where she says hurtful things to you, i'd say try finding some new friends. good luck and sorry this is so long.

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(Rating: 5) thank you. i'm not sure i'm ready just yet to completely throw my friendship with her away since we've friends for years. but if she continues to make me feel bad i will. thank you.
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