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hi im turing 16 in august im female and i have had this bestfriend sience second grade and now im in tenth and well we havent seen or talked to eachother since fifth grade i never forgot him i looked him up on myspace and we started talking again and now my feelings for him are comming back i told him i still like him he dont believe me. he said b4 i told him he has no time for a gf or a love life. i wanna ask him out and tell him how i feel but im scared to lose him as a friend im so confused can you help me? (link)
If he has told you up front that he has no time for a girlfriend, thats a hint. People who know you like them, but they dont have the same feelings for you tend to try to use subtle clues to get you to back off. Mostly because they care about your feelings and dont want to hurt you.

You have a right to tell him how you feel, honestly. And that may be the best move. Tell him you like him, as more than a friend. But my guess is that he is not interested in you as a romantic partner. Men dont tell women they want to hook up with that they have no room in their lives for girlfriends.


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