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i broke up with my boyfriend of almost two years about a month ago and im still not over him. it didnt even bother him though because he was a total ass to me and even cheated with my best friend on me. i was used, cheated on, lied to repeatedly, he tried to turn everyone on me, used all my money all the time even took it and was not a gentleman, i cant seem to live without feeling me in his arms or his kisses. i miss him so much im crying so hard, iv even ben out with friends all this weekend again and i cant get over him. he is already allover many girls and going on dates. helpp please. how do i get over this (link)
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The fast way to get over someone who mistreated you "in my opinion" is to use the anger he has caused you in the 2 years and use that as a focus to move forward. After so long of being mistreated it becomes natural and we become immune to it. However, You did the RIGHT thing by dumping him. A guy who mistreats his girlfriend is simply not worth a dime. It takes time to get over someone, Everyone heals at their own pace. Crying is normal, It is your way of coping with the situation. The only thing you can do is to keep on focusing on yourself, Distance yourself and cut contact with him. Keep spending time with friends and family because in the end they are all you've got. Make sure you do things to keep your mind busy, Go for walks, clean the house, spend time with friends etc. you will get better it will just take some time.
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