about

I'm Mary. I'm a sophomore in college and I love helping people. If you ever need advice or someone to talk to I'm here for you! Never hesitate to ask or message me. Hope I can help!

advice

Okay, I am 15, virgin. I would like to finger myself but I'm not sure how to even do it. How do I break my hymen? Am I to young? I don't know what to do, I want to try it so I know what actual sex will be like, of course when I'm married. However, I'm scared. How do I calm down and just do it? Will it be painful? Just tell me anything, please. I appreciate it.

Fingering you're self isn't a hard thing to do. It's great you want to wait til marrige for sex, its a very mature thing to do tthat a lot of people don't apprecoate the imortance of anymore. But its normal to feel nervous about sex.

To finger yourself you really just put your finger in (same hole you put a tampon in case you didn't know). Sometimes its hard to break or you may not even feel your hymen. You may break it without knowing, you may bleed a little but it shouldn't hurt. Basically just put your finger in and move it around until it feels comfortable in there haha. If you want you can use more than one finger after you get comfortable with the first because a guys penis is thicker than just one finger.

I hope this helped! Message me if you have any more questions and good luck!

[view]

(Rating: 5) thanks.
<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker