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Q: Ill keep this real short, i havent had a propper GF in 7 years. at least not one that stayed with me for over a month. Iv allways been a bit of loner just because i like the solitude. but a few months ago i went out with this one girl... she was amazing, everything i looked for. but she moved away. we went out for a month and a bit i guess.

its been about 4 months since iv seen her let alone talked to her and now im finnaly forgetting my feelings for her (its for the best she found some one new anyway) iv finnaly found some one else too. but its the same problem
im so shy its un real... i can talk to her for a bit then an awkward silence. or i say somthing silly and feeling really stupid about it for a while or a few days.

I dont wanna feel awkward i just dont have thee confidence. luckily she seem's patient and avid to see me so its nice cause i wanna see her too. were going in to town tommorow. im sure there will be a few wierd silences, how do i get around them?
to be honest with you, you can turn this quiet awkward silences into something!

One of the cutest things to girls is honesty and shyness. next time you are with her and an awkward silence comes up, just say, "you know, Im sorry that there are awkward silences sometimes. Im just shy and sometimes dont always know what to say around beautiful girls." make sure to smile alot! It may seem cheesy but the girl will appreciate the compliment, and instead of thinking your a creep, you will look like the shy sensitive type.

awesome!!! thanks alot :D i just went out with her today but i got your answer before i went. she liked it ^_^ many kisses were had afterwards :)

thanks alot it really helped.

and smiling is somthing i do alot anyways so it was all gd :)

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Hi! I'm Stephanie, I'm a 21 yr living in Houston, Texas. I've been living on my own since I was 17 and wouldnt have it any other way. Ive been through many bad things in my life. Instead of letting things hurt me and make me bitter and depressed, I have let them make me stronger. I can give great advice on almost any subject. Im getting married in December to a wonderful man named Chris, and will soon my a military wife! inbox me or email me anytime, id love to hear from you!

stephanie.ellick@gmail.com

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